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A
man’s Date with Destiny !
Ibrahim
Ansari*, serving as office-in-charge in a private
firm, living in one room tenement in a slum near
Mahim Fort felt the ground slip under him when a
surgeon in a reputed private hospital told
him that his 6 month old son, Master Adnan needed
a major corrective surgery to correct a congenital
defect in his little heart. The cost Rs. 3.0
lakhs!.Ibrahim’s world spun around him and in
the ensuing dizziness he could hardly think.
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How could he on a monthly salary of Rs. 3000/-
manage this titanic task of getting his beloved
Adnan back to normal health?
The
first ray of hope emanated from his employer who
volunteered to pay Rs. 50,000/-
Some
one in Mahim suggested that he should approach MESCO, an
organization which helps such cases. 11th
July 1999, is a date he will remember for his entire
life. Not only he got assistance of Rs. 25,000/- but he
was also guided to various other trusts and individuals
who helped him handsomely.
Little Adnan lay on the operating table of
another reputed private hospital and was operated
by a surgeon with a kind heart (he had waived his
operation fees) and little Adnan’s tiny heart was
repaired.
Now little Adnan can
enjoy his life to the fullest because he was guided to
various organizations by MESCO. It was Providence at
work !
NEVER LOOSE HOPE
The dark clouds peeped through the bright sky on the
Khadilkars.
The
only surviving child, Master Tanmay aged 3 years was
diagnosed to be a case of Congenital Heart Disease. The
couple, Mrs. Samira a housewife and Mr. Sitaram
Khadilkar, had lost 3 children due to miscarriage
syndrome.
According to the cardiologist at H. N. Hospital,
Tanmay’s only chance of survival was an Intra Cardiac
Repair surgery. The cost of surgery was Rs. 65,000/-.
The couple could not afford the expense as Mr. Khadilkar
was the only earning member, working in a garment
manufacturing unit on a salary of Rs. 2500/- p.m.
The
Khadilkars approached MESCO with tears rolling down
their eyes. The case was investigated as per the
organizations rules and was found to be suitable and
deserved help.
This
case was advertised by MESCO in Mid-day on behalf of the
Khadilkars. Tanmay was lucky. His parents’ prayers were
heard. Mumbaikars responded positively to the
advertisement.
Tanmay
was successfully operated on 2nd August, 1999
at H. N. Hospital. Today Tanmay is in Nursery and sings
Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. Tanmay himself is the
Twinkling star of the eyes of Aai and Baba.
Health is Wealth
Mr.
Vikram*, originally hailing from Haryana and now settled
in Dombivli, was a student of Std. XI Science. Due to
illness, he could not cope with his studies. Hence his
performance level was not up to the mark.
His
father approached various local doctors, for his
treatment. As per the guidance of his family doctor, he
approached a cardiologist at P. D. Hinduja Hospital
where he advised to undergo a thorough medical check-up.
On
investigation, he was found to be a case of Aortic
regurgitation, which needed Aortic Valve Replacement.
The total cost of the surgery worked out to Rs.
1,50,000/-, which was beyond his father’s capacity. As
his family consisted of 6 members of which he was the
only earning member, working in an industrial unit on a
salary of Rs. 2000/-. Someone from his friend circle
suggested about the charitable trusts, (one of which was
MESCO) providing medical assistance for the poor and
needy. He applied to MESCO and was guided to other
trusts as well. Due to his own efforts and help from
several trusts, his need was fulfilled.
Vikram was operated.
Now he is studying in F.Y.B.Sc. and in his first
semester scored a first class. With the improvement in
his health, his academic performance has improved.
In the driving seat
Mr.
Kasam Khan* aged 42 lived a reasonably carefree life as
he was working as a driver at Saudi Arabia
till he suddenly fell ill. He had to leave the
job and return back to India. Various investigations
were done at P. D. Hinduja Hospital, where he was
diagnosed to be a case of END STAGE RENAL FAILURE.
Whatever he had saved was exhausted in the investigation
and treatment. After a few months, his family and
himself became totally dependent on relatives.
He was
on HEMODIALYSIS under a competent Nephrologist. The
charge for one month’s dialysis worked out in the range
of Rs. 12,000/- to Rs. 15,000/-, which was quite high
for him to bear. He approached various trusts including
MESCO for aid. He was sanctioned three months dialysis
cost from MESCO.
During
the course of visits to MESCO, he was guided and
counseled for KIDNEY TRANSPLANT SURGERY. Only due to his
persistence, one of his relatives agreed to donate him
his kidney. All his belongings were sold in the earlier
treatment and once again he was in need of monetary help
for surgery.
He
again knocked MESCO’s door, with great hope. His case
was reconsidered. He was once again assisted with a
suitable amount towards Kidney Transplant. The surgery
was successfully performed on 26th August, at the same hospital.
Today,
even though he is on Anti Rejection Drugs, he is
again working as a driver and able to support his
family.
EDUCATION (Educational Adoption Scheme)
*Syed Rafat: One
morning one of our Committee members gets a
call from the Principal of an Urdu Medium School,
requesting us to take up a topper from her school under
our Educational Adoption Scheme (EAS), she assures that
the student is very hardworking but comes from a very
poor family and would certainly not be sent to college
if MESCO or some other Charitable Trust did not
intervene. The student fills up an application form. MESCO
staff visits her residence on to check the
veracity of the case and this is what he observes:
Rafat stays in a very narrow hut which is in a bad
shape. Rafat’s father, Mr. Zahid aged 50 years used to
work as a labourer in an Automobile Spare Parts shop
earning Rs. 700/-p.m. until a year back, when the shop
was sold off and he has since been rendered jobless
being illiterate. He still does odd jobs to fend for his
family, whose condition is pathetic.
His
wife is also illiterate and spends most of the day
taking care of her large family consisting of 3
daughters and 2 sons. The eldest daughter Rafat 18 years
old has scored 78.5% marks at her XII (Sc.) and topped
in her college, the next daughter Kaneez Fatima aged 13
years is studying in Std. IX in the same school, the
third daughter, Tabassum (10 years) is a student of a
Municipal (very sub standard) School nearby. The next in
line, Master Roshan (8 years) is also a student of the
Municipal School and the last (son) Master Rizwan aged
(5 years) has not been enrolled in school due to abject
poverty. The hut is very old and narrow and does not
have even the necessary utensils, there is no furniture
not even a bed or cupboard, things are kept in a few
bags; the family uses very old clothes, poverty was
visible everywhere. Rafat gives tuitions to many
children of the locality to earn (a small amount that
provides) livelihood for the family."
Rafat
was finally inducted into the EAS in 1987 and MESCO
Committee managed to secure admission for her in a good
college (Sophia College) run by Christian Missionaries
(Sisters). She was also encouraged and enrolled for
Conversational English Classes; both the college fees,
conversational class fees and 2 sets of clothes were
provided for by MESCO. She was guided & counseled
through her three years of undergraduate studies at the
college. She put in a lot of hard work and in the
history of the college for the first time a vernacular
medium student topped the college in Microbiology at all
the three years of under graduate studies, as also at
the University exams. Rafat scored a high first class at
her degree university exam, and, on the basis of her
result, was granted admission for M.Sc. (on merit). She
scored a first in M.Sc. Part-I, but due to her research
project not doing too well she managed to get only a
high second class in the M.Sc. Part-II. Unfortunately
the same year that she was doing her M.Sc. Part-II, her
hut caved in. MESCO came to her rescue for
reconstruction of the hut and paid Rs. 10,000/- for the
same.
Armed
with an M.Sc. this young girl of 22 who had always
struggled this far now was going to see better days. She
applied for a lecturer’s job at a college in the suburbs
of Bombay and was selected out of over 12 candidates who
had come for the interview.
She was
soon drawing a salary 10 times that she had received
that far, and saw to it that she educated her other
brothers & sisters. Her second sister Kaneez Fatima
completed her degree in Commerce while Tabassum did a
course in tailoring. Both the brothers have also been
educated and are currently employed.
However with all this she still continued to stay in the
small hut but with furniture and some other basic
necessities of life. MESCO's well wishers Mr. Qureishi from Albuquerque, U.S.
on his annual visit to Bombay, had suggested that he
would like to help one or two deserving educated persons
by providing a simple dwelling place costing a lakh to
1.5 lakhs. MESCO members took him to visit Rafat at the
slum colony at Dharavi-Sion, where she stayed. Mr.
Qureishi was so moved by her condition that he decided
on the spot to help her. He bought her a flat (near the
college where she was lecturing), within 4 months of his
decision. Rafat and her family moved into the flat
except for the father who had died in 1996. Now Rafat is
married and recently blessed with a baby boy.
*Nida
Shaikh: Nida’s
father used to work at Kamla Mills but after the strike
and the mill being closed down in 1983 he was without a
job except did some odd jobs at a Bakery nearby to fend
for his family.
Nida
was a bright kid having scored 77.28% at her
S.S.C. Board exams, when she was inducted into the EAS.
She almost gave up studies when her result at Std. XII
(Science) did not turn out to be good enough to give her
a seat in Medicine which field she was keen to pursue.
It was regular counseling, guidance and encouragement
that made her agree to take up Social Work as the next
choice at a well known institution, Nirmala Niketan
College of Social Work.
Initially she was hesitant and not sure if she had taken
the right decision by choosing social work as a career -
but a few months into the course, she was almost certain
that was the career that she would do if given the
opportunity to choose again. She topped not only her
institution but at the University at the degree level
and also later topped the University at the post
graduate level, M.A. (Social Work).
Writes
Nida – ‘I was a student of science with great
ambition of being somebody in the field of medicine -
getting low marks was a blow for me and another twist of
fate which introduced me in the field of Social Work. It
was the blessings of God Almighty, active support &
encouragement of my parents & siblings and MESCO
members that I never repented my decision. Though very
often there were dark clouds surrounding me, making me
feel, that survival in this profession was difficult,
future then seemed bleak, but with fierce, determination
and hard work, I was through it; now there is no
ambiguity as to what I want to do in future.’
Nida is
the fourth child of Mr. Mohd. Hafiz who has 3 daughters
and 2 sons, Nida’s eldest sister dropped out after Std
XI. A younger sister completed her Unani medicine, her 2
brothers have since completed their graduation. One is
employed as a Computer Operator and another is in
Readymade Garment Business all due to Nida’s efforts.
Nida who had been on
EAS- support for 7 years, is now on a
Ph.D Scholarship to the U.K. She worked in the Woman’s
Cell attached to several Police Stations in Mumbai after
her M.S.W.and was awarded a scholarship for doing her
Ph.D. at Sussex Univsersity in London.
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Names changed in all cases to maintain confidentiality
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